
When giving is down in churches, what is the first and typical response? It’s to preach a few sermons about giving (at least that has been my experience in working in churches. Your experience may be different). Because that’s the problem, isn’t it. The people don’t know they are supposed to give. They haven’t been educated enough on giving. They need further verbal prompting and encouragement to give. And so the solution is obvious, “If you teach it, they will give.” How’s that workin’ for us?
In my opinion, it isn’t. Because “knowledge” is not the problem. How money is being spent is the problem
We tend to preach louder and more often about biblical-giving when people are giving less money, when perhaps we should model biblical-spending. It has been my experience that there’s an awful lot of people who are dying to see their hard-earned money make a difference in restoring people in real ways. I hear that people don’t want to simply pay for salaries, supplies, decorations, events, equipment and mortgages. They are longing see their money released in life-giving, restorative and the-least-of-these ways. When people see their money taking care of the poor, the widows, the orphans, the jobless, etc., their hearts and their joy naturally follow. And guess what? They tend to release more money into the kingdom!!! Why? Because we are wired that way.
The year 2006 broke an all-time record in American philanthropic giving, while at the same time churches were reporting all-time lows in giving. I really feel that “giving” is not the problem—people are giving, what the money is being spent on (or perhaps more importantly, NOT being spent on) is the root of the issue.
Dream with me for a second. Imagine if $60-$70 out of every $100 you entrusted to a church is used in such a way? Imagine if a church even went as far as to trust you with your “tithes” for kingdom-type investments in people’s lives all around you? Imagine if 70% of all the church’s donated income went out into the world and community, instead of back into the church? What if, instead of teaching and strongly encouraging people to give 10% to the church, people were empowered and freed to use that money as God personally leads them towards his kingdom? As you dream these things, what is happening in your heart? Are you sensing joy? Fear? What is happening to your apprehension to give? Is it lessoning? Increasing?
“But that is impossible!!” you say. “That is wishful thinking.” “That is an ideal which can never be realized.” If you’re referring to most current churches and how they are systemically structured, I whole-heartedly agree. Their structural overhead is too high and their budget’s too burdened. Now please hear what I am not saying. I am not saying that churches do not commit and give money for restorative purposes. What I am saying that it is typically a very low percentage, mostly due to structural overhead. It is not because of a lack of heart or concern. But even then, imagine if those overburdened churches began to commit at least 10% of their income towards practical, restorative kingdom works?
But what if you started with a new blueprint, one that didn’t require such a large overhead to simply “survive”? What if you structured it in such a way where you don’t need a large gathering building every week? Offices? Staff? Lots of equipment and stuff? What if you designed it to where you could operate on 30% and set aside 70% for missional and restorative purposes? What if part of your goal was to redeem the tithe, putting it back into the hands of the people so they can make a difference in the lives of those around them, instead of mainly funding an organization? This is exactly what a handful of us are dreaming of creating…a place where the tithe is redeemed for missional purposes.
If I knew that 70% of the church’s money was going “out” instead of staying “in”, I would be the most enthusiastic and joyful giver around!! Perhaps that is what God meant when God says that he loves a joyful giver. Perhaps he knew that as you generously transformed the lives of those around you with your money, the natural outcome would be joy. I don’t think it is a command, “Give joyfully or else!!”, as much as it is an indicator of when true and substantial restorative giving is taking place. Joy just happens.
I don’t think we need yet another message on stewardship to get us to give more. I think we need to see our money in Kingdom action. I think we need to be released into the natural joy of seeing our money used to transform and restore—in real and substantial ways—the lives of those in need, both afar and right next door. But that’s just my two-cents worth…
[Update: I read the following article after I published my blog post. I think Aida sheds good biblical light onto the idea of tithing and why people are tending not to give as much, if any: Please Read]
[Note: This was originally titled, "Giving is Down!! Quick, Preach on Stewardship." but I thought I'd soften the edges by asking a question rather than making a statement.]


24 comments
Comments feed for this article
July 8, 2008 at 6:21 am
Tracy Simmons
Jeromy, before I comment any further I want to make sure I understand you: Do you believe that tithing is for New Testament believers?
July 8, 2008 at 7:53 am
Jeromy
I believe that the “tithe” was given for the primary purpose of caring for the least and forgotten (typically orphans, widows, etc.) in society…for restorative works. It included money, food, land. I believe that the NT practice of “sharing all they had in common” was an expression of the heart of the tithe. If “tithing” is defined as such, then yes, I believe it is something we should participate in. Do I believe it is a law? Nope. In the end, I think people should be released to use their “tithe” in how they feel God is leading them for restorative and love purposes.
July 8, 2008 at 9:11 am
Jeromy
Tracy, what do you believe about tithing?
July 8, 2008 at 9:47 am
Tracy Simmons
Okay, I hear you. I think, though, that you should use another word instead of tithe. It really does mean pretty much one thing to most people (you have to give 10% and if you do, God will bless you–gag!), and it’s definitely old covenant thinking that we are no longer subject to.
Putting aside the usage of that term though, I just have one comment to make (well, for now-ha!): I think one of the greatest joys I had in walking away from the institutional “church” setting was learning how incredibly wonderful it is to give directly to those in need (whenever possible) as opposed to giving it to a “church” and having them decide where the money goes. It freed me up to hear the Holy Spirit for myself about how much to give, to whom, and when!. In essence if felt like it removed the old covenant “priest” as mediator. I no longer had to let someone else hear from God about where my money should go. I could hear for myself and give as extravagantly and joyfully as He directed with no “middle man” deciding for me where the money would be best used. Even if it went overseas and I never saw the people, it was still something I felt I had heard and I always had such joy giving like that. Still do!
I just think people are tired of third-party mediators and it’s showing up in their giving, or lack thereof.
I’m not saying I’m against giving to the local place people attend services. Hey, if you go there and partake of what they’re offering, then support it in whatever way you led to. But I often wonder in looking back how much more extravagant would the giving have been if we had been told of great places to directly give our money to, rather than dumping it into an offering plate and letting someone else decide that for us. Imagine if every week a different need were highlighted! Wow–local needs, international needs, etc. Some we might be led to give to long-term, others, just once in awhile, etc. Information could be given about how to send the money directly there if the person so desired or it could be channeled through the local service meeting place (I will not use the word church!) if people would prefer it. I think these options would dramatically increase people’s joy in giving.
These are just my random, brainstorming thoughts, so they may be worth very little! I’ll probably regret hitting the “submit comment” button as soon as I’ve done so as these are pretty “uncooked” thoughts. Treat them as such!
July 8, 2008 at 10:20 am
Jeromy
I hear what you’re saying about “tithe” being a loaded-term. Perhaps new language is appropriate. Any suggestions? I also feel that uncooked thoughts are sometimes the best thoughts to elicit real conversation. Where we simply talk and let our thoughts/ideas flow unfiltered. You bring up some really good points and ideas. I also hear the freedom and passion you now have for giving.
Part of what we are dreaming is that both types of giving can take place. One, where people have the freedom to give as they feel led to the restorative work God is leading them to, and that this giving IS NOT “above and beyond their regular tithes and offerings” (I’m sure you’ve heard that before)…it IS their giving, period. Second is that when people do give during their gatherings and meetings, that 60-70% of this money is set aside for restorative works. The reason is that sometimes we can do more collectively than individually. But even then, this money can be used by anyone as the needs arise. Though the details are not at all fleshed out, we feel that the community as a whole will have a large say in how this money is used. So we are thinking of it this way: You have the freedom to give to the Kingdom as you feel led and part of this giving might include giving to the gathering, if so, that money will be used by the community as the needs arise for Kingdom-restorative purposes. So it’s kind of a both-and scenario, and both of which is covered in grace and freedom.
I think you bring up a good point with your term third party mediator. I never have applied that thinking to giving.
I also think that for too long the church has not trusted the people with their gving-money, and instead asked the people to trust the church with it. Again, this issue to me boils down to control, trust, and the priesthood of all believers.
My question for you it this. Does the use of the term “tithe” grate against you because it is not biblical or because it has been abused?
July 8, 2008 at 10:55 am
Tracy Simmons
Great thoughts stirring around, Jeromy. I also have to realize that not everyone wants to hear for themselves where to give (and then sometimes to research as well, to be sure it’s going to a great place), and they might welcome someone else taking their money and giving it where it is best used. I just have certain passions for places I love to give to, so it delights me to be able to do so. Wonder of wonders, not everyone is like me
.
As to your question: Tithing is just not biblical for us new covenant folks, so I don’t really like to see it used in that context. I spent a long time studying this before I felt free to stop tithing and to start giving extravagantly as led to do so. I probably should blog on this at some point, but for now you can at least read two posts that I reference on my blog (one by Aida and one by Joel) here at the bottom of this post: http://tinyurl.com/6lsvcx. I especially like what Aida says about how it robs us of relationship. I really believe that is true, and it’s one of my main objections to people thinking they still need to tithe.
July 8, 2008 at 1:02 pm
Jeromy
You bring up a good point. Some would rather just give and trust that the money is being used in restoritive purposes. But if we can do that and still mantian the “relationship” aspect beetween the giver and the receiver, all the better. Thanks for helping process all this.
July 8, 2008 at 1:16 pm
Tracy Simmons
Jeromy, you’ve brought up another point that I have not even thought of. When I said “relationship” I meant between the giver and God. We need to hear Him, learn to know His voice, and let our giving come from our hearts as it flows out of relationship with Him. I had not even considered the relational aspect of giving as far as the person we are giving to, but in looking back, that also has been profound in my life.
This dialogue is really helping me sort things out!
July 8, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Jeromy
See, we learn and grow best in community! I never thought of the realtionship between God and giver…at least not in “realationship” terms. But it does help us to hear and follow very practically. Perhaps this helps all three relationships (God, ourselves, and the other) to be enhanced and restored.
I am glad I can help sort out the mess in your mind. Perhaps when your done, you can help me sort my mess.
July 8, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Tracy Simmons
You wrote: “I am glad I can help sort out the mess in your mind. Perhaps when your done, you can help me sort my mess.”
I would not even dream of trying. I like your “mess” just the way it is!
July 8, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Jeromy
ahhhhhh….
July 8, 2008 at 7:31 pm
HW
I love the conversation
July 9, 2008 at 6:55 am
Round Up From Around the Web and Some Personal Disclosures on Finances and Tithing « Coffee Klatch
[...] This second blog was also really interesting. I found it to be a really insightful and different way of looking at tithing. Jeromy’s blog is quickly becoming one of my favorite blogs to read and this entry shows yet again why that’s true. This post asks the question “Why Are People Giving Less to Churches?” but really it is addressing church budgets and wondering if people would give more if they saw their money being used to do God’s redemptive work in the world. Here’s a quote from this blog post that really hit me and I thought I would share here… [...]
July 9, 2008 at 9:26 am
Sampson
Right on brotha! I think you hit the nail on the head with this one!
July 9, 2008 at 10:38 am
Jeromy
Sampson ~ In part thanks to our recent phone and iChat conversations. I tend to hit the nail periodically, but more often I hit my thumb
July 12, 2008 at 5:13 pm
writetools
Jeromy- you put into words what I have been trying to order in thoughts for a long time now. This is always my quandry… I know we are giving our tithes to God… it is his money… given with the right heart, once released it should no longer be agonized over..
ok, mixed with the realities… of golf playing, harley driving pastors who live in a bigger house than most… and yet complain from the pulpit that the giving is not enough to stay afloat. Buying top of the line AV, when quite honestly what we had was good…sounds the same to me… and on…and on… it is this impression of lack of stewardship that keeps my checkbook closed. I think you are right on… I think that if the church made the comittment to tithe to the community, nation and world at that perchentage, God is a big enough God to help make it all work out. This is definilty a hot topic… and one that is tough for me personally.
July 12, 2008 at 7:43 pm
Jeromy
Writetools…you mentioned that God is big enough to make it all work and I think that is where it boils down to, trust and priorities. If we place the priorities on the outward missional movement of God—blessed to be a blessing—then we trust that God will provide what we need to keep the “system” afloat. To me it is reminiscent of losing your life in order to find it. How can we apply that corporately and systematically?
July 15, 2008 at 9:00 pm
jared
I couldn’t agree more with what you are saying! Materialism is prevalent in our churches because it is prevalent in its people. Why can’t i keep things for myself when the church body is keeping it all for itself anyways? Is their mission greater than providing for my family? Are their possessions more godly than having possessions for my family? The church is the richest organization in the world, but somehow we don’t think the church “bankers” are effected by its purse strings. We only think the world is capable of misusing, or in our case – misdirecting money into our own pockets.
-Jared Bartholomew
http://churchtithesandofferings.com/
July 17, 2008 at 7:18 am
Jeromy
Jared…even our giving has become “all about us”. You offer some good insights.
July 18, 2008 at 10:14 am
Tim Kiser
Great post Jeromy. People ARE generous and will give freely to causes that advance the kingdom of GOD – not man. Keep ‘em coming!
July 18, 2008 at 1:55 pm
Jeromy
Thanks Tim and I couldn’t agree more.
August 4, 2008 at 2:14 am
thenonconformer
How are the pastors now being paid?
From love offerings or the tithe?
People who accept any portion of the tithe are not allowed to own any tangiable property, such as a home, real estate.. according to the Bible too
http://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2008/05/29/the-ttihe/
August 4, 2008 at 6:37 am
Jeromy
In most churches, here in the States, pastors are paid from the tithe.
August 14, 2008 at 7:15 am
Bookmarks about Personal
[...] – bookmarked by 2 members originally found by liesje07 on 2008-07-21 Comment on Why Are People Giving Less to Churches? by Round Up … http://mendingshift.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/why-are-people-giving-less-to-churches/#comment-1373 [...]